I just returned from a nice evening walk on the golf course in the nice cool air. There was a phone message waiting for me when I got back. I returned the call and was told that someone at work had just suffered a fatal heart attack. I am in such shock. He wasn't a close friend but certainly someone that I knew and liked. He was one of the executives and I saw him regularly. He was young with 3 daughters, the oldest just 16. Not knowing just how to handle my emotions and having this blog, I decided to write.
Death can come so suddenly. Our lives are so short and we just never know what the next chapter will bring or even if we will get a next chapter. I will use this as a reminder to enjoy each moment and treasure my loved ones.
Oh Suzie, I am so sorry to hear about that young man. What a tragedy. He has such young children. What a shock and loss for his family and his work family. Sincere and heartfelt condolences to his wife and children. They have a tough time ahead of them.
ReplyDeleteMy sister told me just the other day that she was in the waiting room of her cardiologist’s office and he was suddenly called away to attend a 40-year old patient that was having a heart attack. Unfortunately that lady didn’t make it either. My sister strongly encouraged Ray and I to get our act together and embark on our next adventure. Life really is too, too fragile not do what your heart is yearning for. We keep thinking about losing our 46-year old sister-in-law to a blood clot after knee surgery. It has motivated us to step up the timeframe and get this thing done. I keep Heather’s “words to live by” in mind all the time.
I am so glad I went looking for your phone number that day and found your blog. This is a great way to keep in touch with a number of folks. I am on a quest to be a better communicator because I adore all our family and friends and really do want to stay in touch. You and Heather are naturally great at communication. I on the other hand, have to work a bit harder at it…you know me, I like to work!
I love Lucy!!
ReplyDeleteI love Lucy too!
ReplyDeleteI can relate... 47 year old sister died of breast cancer, left three daughters, 8, 11 and 17 at the time. One of the big reasons we are where we are. I even gave notice to my work on the 2 year anniversary of losing my sister.
Go live now!
And glad to know that Ray and Lucy are getting back out there and "doing it" again.
I feel for those kids and that family - hugs.
Heather, I knew you would understand. I was telling someone at work yesterday about your sister and the wonderful children that she is not getting to see grow up.
ReplyDeleteKirby and I left California after so many deaths. Enjoyed our time but have to work for now. Will go again in a few years.
Big hugs and kisses to all four of you!
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